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Tomorrow is comics meet day, and I'm not looking forward to it because I need to have words with one of the people who goes to it, because they upset me at the last meet. I don't want to do it, but I also don't want to sidestep it, because it's not the first time they've been shitty with me. And I don't want them to be shitty with me, because I'm good enough at doing that myself. I don't need anyone else to do it for me. I also don't want them to be shitty with anyone else. So yeah, I need to yell at them and tell them to stop being a creep, essentially.
I'm fairly certain I can do it. I've got better at talking to people when they upset me, but this person is a bit of an unknown quantity, as I don't socialise with them outside of the comics meet, so have no idea how they will take this. I really hope they learn from it, but I honestly don't know.
(Though you watch - this'll be the one time they don't turn up. I've spent all this time being angry and mentally preparing myself for this, and they won't be there).
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In other, more pleasing news:
I have a credit card that I applied for over a decade ago, and which got foolishly used and ran up the limit several times over several years. Welp. The good news is that I am THIS CLOSE to paying it off for good! I've got about £400 to be paid off now, which is the lowest it's ever been. And I've done most of that in the last twelve months, and I'm really pleased with myself.
Once it's paid off, I'm going to cancel it, because I don't want it, and I hate being in debt. (Also I have other debts that need paying, and I'd like to try to diminish and/or pay those off if possible).
So. At least that's one less thing to worry about.
I'm fairly certain I can do it. I've got better at talking to people when they upset me, but this person is a bit of an unknown quantity, as I don't socialise with them outside of the comics meet, so have no idea how they will take this. I really hope they learn from it, but I honestly don't know.
(Though you watch - this'll be the one time they don't turn up. I've spent all this time being angry and mentally preparing myself for this, and they won't be there).
~
In other, more pleasing news:
I have a credit card that I applied for over a decade ago, and which got foolishly used and ran up the limit several times over several years. Welp. The good news is that I am THIS CLOSE to paying it off for good! I've got about £400 to be paid off now, which is the lowest it's ever been. And I've done most of that in the last twelve months, and I'm really pleased with myself.
Once it's paid off, I'm going to cancel it, because I don't want it, and I hate being in debt. (Also I have other debts that need paying, and I'd like to try to diminish and/or pay those off if possible).
So. At least that's one less thing to worry about.